We all want love. Undoubtedly, relationships are one of the greatest aims in most cases. However, we often forget that flowers and all-night dates are only a tiny part of what we usually call “a relationship”. It always comes along with serious decisions, minor issues, misunderstandings, responsibility, and great efforts. No matter how beautiful and fulfilling your love story is, you still have to face some typical issues from time to time. In collaboration with our friends from Jump 4 Love Scam, we have gathered some issues people tend to bump into in love relationships, and some ways to solve it.
Issues #1: You can’t stand living together.
Probably, the most insane and standard issues. Some people decide to share the apartment too soon, without learning each other sufficiently. As a result, they find themselves struggling to get used to certain habits, life regimes, and behavior peculiarities. We can only recommend two solutions based on the level of your affection: Either you do your best to get accustomed to the person you live with or break up. Unfortunately, we have nothing else to offer.
Issue #2: Your sex life is a mess.
It sometimes happens that people, who are on the same page about literally everything, cannot find a common ground in bed. Sexual arousal, without doubts, is no simpler than any other psychological and physiological phenomenon. The best solution is to seek different approaches in bed (new positions, roleplaying, sex toys, sexual yoga practices etc.). It might seem as a hard work – but it pays off greatly.
Issue #3: You can’t trust your partner.
Building trust is indeed one of the most complicated processes in terms of a love relationship. Do not ever believe people who say that they felt like trusting their beloved ones from the very first date – they are hypocritical liars. If you can’t trust your partner because he or she cheated on you or betrayed you in any possible way, you will have to try hard to recreate the trust you had before.
Issue #4: You don’t understand his or her priorities.
Since this article is created for young adults and not adolescents, we assume you don’t’ start a relationship just because everyone does. Therefore, you have a certain aim. Whether it is marriage or just long-lasting love relationship, you probably understand why you do what you do. It’s extremely important to be on the same page about your relationship’s future. Otherwise, why would you even bother to initiate something serious?
Issue #5: You don’t feel the approval of friends and parents.
This one is the only external problem on the list. Nonetheless, it often has a visible effect on how you treat your partner. Fortunately, in the modern era, you can start a relationship and marry anyone you want regardless of your parents’ opinion. But if you actually need this approval, you should do your best to assure peers and relatives that the partner you choose is the best decision in the whole wide world for you.