What Turns Men on During Phone Sex?

What really turns a man on when he is having phone sex?  Is it hearing somebody’s voice?  Is it being able to attach the voice to the picture?  Is it sexting girls and phone sex at the same time?  Is it all of the above?

There is no one way of turning men on; it varies from person to person, so to use the list above, one person might just need a voice, while someone else needs a voice and a picture, while another one needs a video.

Talk Dirty

Leaving role-playing and BDSM-specific scenarios aside, phone sex works best when it involves dirty talk. The talk doesn’t have to be specific, and it can be in any flavour of talk you want, but it will definitely get anybody going. Of course, this being phone sex, you do have to limit your dirty talk to what will work when you are on opposite ends of a phone line, but that leaves plenty of material to work with.

  • I get so turned on just thinking about the last time we made love!
  • I want you to slowly kiss me from my lips, down my neck, onto my breasts and all the way down my body. (feel free to reword this to something even dirtier if you’re comfortable.)
  • I was thinking about you last night before I went to sleep
  • I want you to take control of me

Vary the Tone of your Voice.

Tone of voice is incredibly important, particularly if you are using a particular service. Mistresses should be confident and imperious; roleplaying schoolgirls should be sweet, innocent and playful-sounding, and generally the voice on the end of the phone should be sexy and sensual.

Varying the tone of voice works too – using a soft velvety slow tone is good for a slow burn, but a more excited voice can help turn a man on more quickly.

Speed of Voice

How fast you are talking is very important – as was said above, speaking quickly can get a man turned on, but speaking slowly is generally best for dirty talk.  Talking slowly keeps things burning steadily for longer, which makes for a very enjoyable experience all round, especially since it allows for the experience to be prolonged.

Body Language

This one is obviously difficult, since you are on opposite ends of a phone line. This is possibly where sexting comes in; or you can hope for a really good imagination.

Alternatively, you could use the opportunity to describe what you are doing, and this is one of the true beauties of phone sex.  Hearing someone talk about exactly what they want to do to you can be incredibly hot, and if you and your partner nail the voice and tone correctly, then the entire effect can be amazing.

Turning men on during phone sex obviously varies a lot, but there are some basic rules as to how to make things good for him, which have been outlined above. Get the ground rules down properly, and then try and expand your repertoire for sexy fun!

Leave a Reply

Your email address will not be published. Required fields are marked *